You’re engaged? Here’s what to do first!

Has your other half recently popped the question? Congratulations! We bet you are so excited but you’ve probably got 100 thoughts racing through your mind about what you should do first. Should you start planning straight away? How should you celebrate? Well, we’ve got you covered! We’ve put together a list of the six things to begin with after you’ve said yes.

SHARE THE NEWS

After you’ve taken a moment to soak in the excitement (and maybe admire your ring a few dozen times), it’s time to share the news! Give your nearest and dearest a call and let them know, maybe Facetime them so you can see their happy reaction first hand. Once your loved ones have been informed, you may choose to share your announcement on social media with some snaps of the two of you and of course, the ring! But no pressure, you can share the news with whoever and however you like.

celebrate good times

Before you get swept away in the excitement of planning your big day, make sure you take some time to celebrate. Celebrations can take many forms and it’s important to do what’s right for you. Whether you’re planning a weekend away with just the two of you, an intimate meal with your closest friends, or a large engagement party with everyone you know, there’s no right or wrong way to mark the occasion. As long as you’re having fun, you’re making the right choice!

Insure your ring

As well as taking some time to celebrate, it’s important to think of the practicalities! One of the first things on your post-engagement to do list should be insuring your ring. Chances are, it’ll be one of the most expensive pieces of jewellery which you own and you want to have peace of mind that it’s insured if anything were to happen to it.

Discuss your non-negotiables

Before you dive into planning, take some time to think about what really matters to you both. Consider things like location, the overall feel of your day, and your budget—but most importantly, your non-negotiables. Whether it’s a specific venue, a certain time of year, or having a live band, knowing these key priorities early on will help guide your decisions and keep you focused on what’s truly important to you.

get inspired

It’s time to start gathering inspiration for your big day! Take a look on Pinterest, save some ideas on Instagram, or why not buy a wedding magazine or two and browse through whilst enjoying a coffee. It will help you decide the kind of themes you both like (or eliminate the ones which you don’t) which will give you a good starting point for the rest of your plans.

Decide on your timeline

Do you want a long engagement, or would you prefer to opt for a late availability wedding package? Do you have a particular season or year in mind? Deciding on your timeline will really help shape the rest of your planning decisions.

No matter how you choose to celebrate your engagement or begin your planning, remember that this time is all about you and your partner. Take it at your own pace, stay focused on what matters most to you both, and enjoy the process of creating a day that’s uniquely yours.

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